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Tuesday, 14 February 2012

Kenapa berblog / Why blogging?

Apa sebenarnya ber blogging or apa actually makes a good blogger/blog itu bagus? Maybe the way they write, banyak jokes, relax je if baca blog dia, I love fashion so her blog so adorable, lagi banyak photos lagi menarik or who blogs every single day without fail is awesome.

Sometimes, honestly I rasa takut dalam dunia blog. Ada certain people talk about everything contoh about their life with her husband or boyfriend tapi frankly speaking macam open untuk semua. Betul ke apa dia story ni? Pasal dia nak cerita kat orang pasal tu. For me macam terlalu personal or sensitif. People akan judges 360 darjah and have their own positive and negative perception . So people hati-hati dengan apa you story.

Or they story about every single things there is under the sun. Cerita boring ke cerita sedih or cerita ntah apa apa they all still share. Is it nak kejar awards or popularity / the best blogger? Highest rating or statistics? Apa yang you all cari dalam berblog? or someone desperately want to be famous!

For me I'm not intend to share every single thing lagi-lagi about my personal life. If you all dah go through my blog mesti you all tau apa I story about kan? So, just nak advice be careful apa yang you all jot down and share. Always bothered me to know who read my blog? orang yang baik dari perception towards me? or sebaliknya. But i know ramai out there just like me, documented personal life even ada yang lagi secret pun diaorang nak cerita so it will sort of make me feel agak berani to share about my life.

But sometimes ada people yang berblog tapi bila I tanya what's URL or blog's name. They won't share, they said malu lah nak share? so apa point you all berblog except you want to share? If malu with your story why blogging? Circumstances I don't understand why people blogging. But I tak salahkan sesiapa itu hak individu. Oh, well, I guess that's just how humans are.

Mr. Fand asked me "why did you publicize your story and your picture?" senang je wawa jawab, why they all baca and tell others story about me? hihihi. I just hope people yang get through my blog is someone yang baik and don't intend to do any niat yang tak best to me. If ada yang tak puas hati can direct email to wawa.tasliman@gmail.com. :)

Actually I love sharing, firstly about my looks, my experience, my stories cause i know ramai out there feels the same with me and share too at their blog. Just for suka suka. Maybe ada orang suka with 'the opposite of pink' and menyampah. But I don't want this to be the reason for me to stop.  But i remember satu ayat ni 'tak hidup dek puji, tak mati dek keji' so what's the matter?

So teruskan with 'the opposite of pink' and with all my vulnarable to share. To me, I want the things yang cantik to be an example to others or the bad thing happened to me is for the rest to learn from it! That's all. 


13 comments:

  1. i love blogging...not for money...but to have friends...

    n berblog jugak i jumpa u... :)

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  2. betul3..setiap org ada persepsi masing2..
    tp kalo sy, sy suka baca blog yg share everything about their lifes..at least, dpt tahu something yg mgkin blh djadikan pengajaran..or maybe blh dpt tau info yg xtau sblm ni..lagi best baca blog yg share ttg percutian dia ka dll hehe..btw, 1st time singgah sini, salam kenal :))

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  3. Hello there Wawa,
    Thanks for dropping by my blog,and that reminds me I want to link you on my blog for easy reference ;-)

    Love what you wrote here,but I love your blog so much,because maybe I am in the same boat as you,I don't really like to read someone else's personal life too much online,especially if that someone is a complete stranger to me.

    But,having your personal life written once in a while is a good thing too,because people someone wonder about the blogger's life.

    Especially if you're married,it's ok in a way or another to story about your life with your husband,because everything is halal you know ;-)

    Unlike me,I am not married,so it's not really a good thing to expose my relationship too much online ;-)

    And I love your clear pictures.

    Follow you back soon.

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  4. Er,did you get my first comment?Just wondering.

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  5. agreed! me blogging for my self not 100% abt personal matters more towards me and kids... if hubs is to personal to shares with public... and me love blogging coz can have more friends :D

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  6. i do love blogging bcoz of i love to share and read...hahahahaa..
    mula2 dulu memang tak tahu nak share apa but after I always blogwalking and attend event I realise that I can share it in blog.

    that why suka blogging..

    honestly I ada jugak share about my personal life...marriage life...bcoz i tot everyone have their own experience in it. so do I...why not im sharing it through blog also...

    but yg very personal like 'intimate' story I'm not blog it....that is tooooooo personal...

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  7. i do love blogging bcoz of i love to share and read...hahahahaa..
    mula2 dulu memang tak tahu nak share apa but after I always blogwalking and attend event I realise that I can share it in blog.

    that why suka blogging..

    honestly I ada jugak share about my personal life...marriage life...bcoz i tot everyone have their own experience in it. so do I...why not im sharing it through blog also...

    but yg very personal like 'intimate' story I'm not blog it....that is tooooooo personal...

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  8. better to write for urself and have no public than to write for the public and have no self :')

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  9. thats right.. ada benda yang kita boleh share ada yang tak.. but depends on individu lah kan..tapi kite suka baca kisah hidup orang.. :)

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  10. yep, right. never be too personal when blogging ! Too much information is never good ;)

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  11. 'tak hidup dek puji, tak mati dek keji' suka ayt ni..dlm berblog tak perlulah nak cerita all the personal things sgt kan..mesti knl pasti mna yg sensitif mna yg tak..tapi berblog ni bg saya mmg seronok wlpn kdg2 story yg nk ckp tu ntah pape janji kita saya suka..hihi..:)

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  12. yup it depends on individual kn. nk tulis pe tp sy pon stuju jgn la trlalu personal habes cter sume kn. hhuhu..i do keep lot of my personal story to myself, xsesuwai la babe! n lg satu sal org y xnk share tu sy phm bg dorg blog cam diari dorg tp...............bkn klu org trbukak org ble bace juge ker.. haiyooooo..again "IT DEPENDS ON THE INDIVIDUAL" haha

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